1. I think one of the main problems is that my wife does record a lot of shows and then keeps them on the main drive and takes a while to have a day to watch them all. She’ll eventually get around to watching them and then deleting them. But, it does take some time.
2. The other problem is that we have had everything on one dvr before and she will complain about having to go through 13 different episodes of teen shows, etc before finding her stuff (I know, first world problem stuff right there).
1.) Oh, don't think you are the only one in that boat! My wife does the same thing. Can take months to get to something. Me too to a small degree, but usually find time to binge watch to get rid of older ones. We play "when you get your own house someday..." with the kids. Meaning, the parents get to keep whatever they want on the DVR and the kids are the ones to watch and purge. Or we delete if space needed (but never got to that point).
2. You won't have to worry. Just create folders and then set the timers to throw the recordings into the appropriate folder. Even saved PTAT recordings. Can make them your names or mom, dad, and so on. The main list will be nice and clean. Your wife simply will go to her folder and no clutter. Again, been through icon hell on the DVR but no more. The new interface (UI) makes the DVR list a lot nicer and without all the prior Hopper choices you have to make for displaying icons.