well i made my decision (for now). Decided to go with adelphia. Ordered the HD DVR, and of course when they arrived they said they were out of stock on them in the warehouse and brougth an HD reciever instead. So far a couple of problems recieving certain premium channels. Said i have to wait until saturday when a guy comes out supposedly with the hd dvr. I'll believe it when i see it. Decision for me came down to Direct tv with universal HD, dish with tnt hd, or adelphia with cinemax hd. All other HD channels were the same (hermosa beach is one of the few adelphia area's that had discovery and cinemax), minus the hdnet or voom programming, which honestly i never watch. adelphia's no contract (i can wait and see what dish and direct tv are going to do), cinemax, contracts in other area's with networks like star/ hdnet/inhd, the buyout by timewarner/comcast (i get time/warner), and being listed on the monstershd page give me hope. so i dissappointedly decided adelphia. Finally figured out how to get the SD channels to upconvert to 1080i today, thank god, i was hating it before, now its at least watchable.
now i wait and see what the future brings. God i hate adelphia.