I certainly disagree. Also, considering that most coaches have curfews, team rules and guidelines (covering off the field behavior), and the fact that numerous players have been dismissed from countless programs for violating these rules, I would say that most coaches disagree with you as well.The coaches job is to teach the players how to play football. Not worry about what they do in the off time,
or after they get out of school and graduate.. This is college. This is professional football. This is not peewee or high school where the coaches job is to also build the person as a man. When these guys get to college they are already adults and make there own choices.
I do agree that after they get out of school, they are on their own, although you do often hear of some of the more "legendary" coaches that continued to "check" in on former players, and help them out long after they left the program.