Hmmm.
I had a horse and carriage and used to compete in driving events with her until recently. Lost her in the bankruptcy, but that's another story
Been there, done that (bankruptcy - not the horse and carriage thing). That's sad, but I hope that you came out the other end doing OK, or, at least rebuilding.
The point is that I used to come in contact with a lot of Amish families during events, auctions, etc. Not nearly as idyllic as you paint it. Although it is dangerous to generalize, my impression is that the Amish are a very pragmatic lot in terms of their beliefs. For example, every business card I have been given has had a phone number. They may not allow phones in their house, but many have it hanging in a box in the front yard, with a very loud bell. Shocked me the first time the fellow I was talking to whipped a cell out of his pocket to take a call.
They don't drive, but when they came in from Iowa for the big auction, the families hired big RVs and drivers to bring them in in style. The carriages they sell use space age alloys, dual hydraulic disc brakes and are constructed with laser cut tubing, mig welded and powder coated.
As an aside, I would never personally purchase a horse trained by the Amish folks I knew. They get results, but I feel they are too harsh and impatient. The result is a horse that is obedient, but one that has no joy.
Yes, I know what you mean. I think it's important to note (though you appear to know the difference) that not all who appear to be Amish truly are. Some may be Mennonite, and I believe have a somewhat different set of rules under which they live by. But, at least in the Lancaster/Intercourse area of PA, I think the tourism trade has perhaps pushed them a bit toward at least some of the "workarounds" you mention. Certainly, their shops are lit with electricity, and in some cases, I've seen electronic cash registers, cell phones, etc. Still, I'd like to think that their core principles are intact. Having said that, my apologies to the Amish and Mennonite folks, as I'm sure I'm just one more person with opinions based on my intermittent peeks into their world while travelling. I really don't know.
Finally, a picture, because I still miss her:
Thanks for sharing the pic. She's a beauty!
Mark