Well some GOOD NEWS.... Without anyone elses help I FIXED IT and got it running.
. It is online now and currently reindexing...
So you are wondering, hows the speed, and I will be honest its hard to tell, since I am the only one on it and we need to build the cache for it to be faster. But for pages that I have already loaded it is fast... but then again this site is fast too...
But we have 6 more CPU cores, 24 GB more of ram, and double the hard drive space all for what we were paying for this old server.
I will explain what the problem was later... and I will also post the url to the test server so you can try it.
We will see how it runs, and if no problems then if my wife does not have my night planned for me, then I will do the upgrade to the new server tomorrow night.
. Expected down time is about an hour.
But I did this transfer twice tonight after getting it working and things went smooth.
So stay tuned for the URL.