In civilized western society you will be burdened by regulation. In your case, it sounds like you need to find yourself a deserted island, where you can do whatever you like, whenever you like.
Unfortunately, you now live around other people, and some of those people are very dangerous by the acts they commit. One of those acts include using a cell phone and being too distracted to drive properly. It has been proven to be a hazard to others, thus a suggestion was given to remove that hazard from others. Again, you have a choice. You can always ignore such a regulation, a "rebel" as such, and chance the consequences, OR you can choose to follow the regulation and complain about this tremendous burden that has been put upon you.
And yes, how long something has been around is relevant. Was DDT deemed safe when it was being used, how about Agent Orange? Only after time, were these and many other things found to be dangerous to humans. Would you prefer that those things still be unregulated and rely on the goodness of others to not use these things around your house, or loved ones?