Hehe, I'm not entirely for or against HOAs, they're not all bad - if you choose to live in one, at least you have the benefit of several things just not happening, and the neighborhoods overall *seem* more pleasant.
No HOA is perfect, but everyone who owns a house in an HOA has the right to vote and speak their mind about what's going on, and they can organize opposition/campaigns against ridiculous rules.
Usually the bad HOAs happen when nobody takes interest in their neighborhood's affairs and decides to not vote on things or participate. The same thing happens when nobody goes to vote for their city staff.
Yes, there are bad things, and there are good things. IMHO if you're running into issues with an HOA, you probably shouldn't have bought a tract house in a subdivision anyway, rather you should've gotten a piece of land with more room to be comfortably/safely doing things in your yard that you want to (EG: Rebuilding and restoring a boat). Waking up at 8am because your neighbor is WOTing his dual V8 outboard motors with open exhaust and stinking up the whole *@#%%* street gets on my nerves.
I wish the HOA here had balls. It's an optional thing and they don't really do much, in a way - that's not bad, since they do nice landscaping and that's about it, OTOH this isn't a big spacious place - when people "do what they want", they tend to be treading on your own rights as a next door neighbor, like the rights to privacy, and freedom to breathe clean air, ya know.
On the flipside, I'm not a property nazi - if you want to fly flags, I'm cool with that. I recall an HOA forcing a guy to take down his flagpole, that was F-ed up.
If you want to redo a car in your garage, fine. Again, your damn property, why should I care?
OTOH, putting up a basketball hoop in the middle of the street, parking all your cars in the street for long amounts of time (project cars in front of other people's houses), and making an F-ing sh*t ton of noise all get on my nerves - I'll happily live in an HOA to not deal with bull like that.
With neighborhoods getting tighter and tighter, the tighter rules don't surprise me, really though you don't HAVE to buy the house there, for example in a lot of new neighborhoods, your driveway can be about 10' from someone else's back door.
That sounds lame, but it's a tradeoff - the developers get to use much more of the land, and the buyers who are interested, love it because they don't have to maintain a big yard.
The disadvantage to having a small yard (one I'm very familiar with) is that you end up that much closer to your neighbors. gah :\
I'm not sure why people make such a big deal about Dish placement either, but I doubt it'll be an issue in our other place's neighborhood - the best place to put a dish would be on the south side of the house, but the wiring is all on the north side *sigh* so it'll probably end up getting mounted up at the top of the north side. *shrug*
Even if it was mounted on the south side, it wouldn't really be hard to keep out of sight without having any LOS issues - our yard's huge and there's no problem with mounting them so that they're not visible, in fact that'd be a good thing because the dishes would be within easy reach
Really though, our house is visible on 3 sides, lol. There aint much we can do that'd make a dish invisible from the street, and other people in the neighborhood have theirs fairly visible anyway.