While I feel that Dish should have had the software ready a tad sooner, to be fair most people don't care about OTA. People like you and me that visit SatGuys are a VERY small portion of the overall Dish user base. Add to that that not everyone is getting Hopper or has Hopper, the user base is even smaller. Even those that are interested in OTA if they don't visit SatGuys then they don't even know that the dongle exists yet. Also as previously stated MOST new installs get the latest software anyway so those new installs that inquire about OTA can mostly use it.
It's unfortunate that you didn't get the new software yet but rest assured it won't be long. A couple of weeks won't kill you, especially if you think about the fact that some of us that have had Hoppers have had to wait 6-8 months for the OTA dongle.
Just be patient. It probably won't be any more than a couple of weeks at most before you get the software to make your OTA dongle function. If it makes you feel any better, the OTA dongle is VERY strong in my experience (I have the OTA software already.) it is also very stable and pretty user-friendly so you will not be disappointed once you get the proper software!
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