So much to do about an old C band dish.....and this from the girl that said I'll NEVER have one of those big old ugly things in my yard:yikes.......lol
Just yankin' yer chain a bit Dee..........I told you a year ago you were a C bander candidate.
Well, here's what I've got to contribute to the topic.
Anytime anything is destroyed or senselessly lost it is unfortunate. You did initially drag your feet, but after coming to a (verbal) agreement to the disposition of what was left there, you are right in pursuing compensation. A verbal/handshake agreement is enforceable in civil (small claims) court in Texas. (forget about the Judge Wopner/Judy/Joe crap. That's all pseudo docu-drama for ratings) The JP will decide who is telling the truth and rule accordingly. From what you've said I believe the judge will agree they accepted responsibility for your property and should be liable for compensation. I hope you win, but dont expect compensation for a new dish. They will argue is was X years old, etc. Go prepared. Present documentation. witness testimony, pics, what ever you have. Also as the saying goes, "You cant eat a judgment" so just because you get a ruling in your favor doesnt mean they will pay it. I guess you could always file a lien on the property you just sold them. Wouldnt that be poetic justice......lol
I understand your position and frustration. I get bent if anyone transgresses me or what is mine as well.
There is a HOWEVER, and I know you knew that was coming. I see your dad's point too. It is just a damned old dish. Not worth exceeding the blood pressure limits and having a stroke or popping an aneurysm.
Make piece with your pop. You can find another dish, but you've only got one dad, and you dont want the last exchange you may have with him to be bad, especially over a "damned old dish". Life's too short for all that BS.
Learn to be a spotter. Since your old dish survived Rita, I'll bet others have too. There are still a number of idle C abnd dishes out there. If my seven yo grandaughter can spot and id a C band dish, (several times before I spot them!) I know you can too. She has trouble telling between a Primestar and the new HD pizza pans but when in motion, I do too!
I'm not sure exactly where you are, but you are a bit to far for me to take as a casual drive, but I know I could find you one or more within 10-20 mi of your residence. I did talk to a lady last summer that had one she wanted taken down over that way. I think she was around the Kountz area. I can go by her daughter's house and see if I can get some contact info.
Dont worry about getting in a hurry to get a C band dish up. As you have discovered, this hobby is always a work in progress!
I dont know what comments were made in whatever the RTN thread was (havent read it) , but I dont think you will be ostracized or shunned for expressing an opinion. Different people get different things from this hobby, which means different points of view and opinions. Agree to disagree and move on to something you agree on. No biggie. Remember I told you my mom, all my aunts, and female cousins, and two of my daughters were red heads? I am quite accustomed to loud and opinionated crimson tempered women........lol
When the time comes dont concern yourself with passed scrapes. They are just that, passed. Learn from it and go forward. I'm sure there will always be folks here willing to help anyone who asks to improve their TVRO setup.
Now call you pop tomorrow and tell him you want to meet him at the DQ so he can buy you an ice cream cone and ya'll can talk about things.
Who knows, he might even take ya on a daddy/daughter dish hunt when you finish your cone...........
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