Here is an interesting one, refreshing our memory that Dish Network was instrumental in GolTV getting off the ground in the first place:
This is what gives me hope that something will be worked out. By virtue of being ahead of the other providers in adding GolTV (and ESPN Deportes (ie CL matches) if I'm not mistaken), I would think that, early on, Dish grabbed a pretty good share of the soccer (particularly Hispanic) fan market. In fact, I remember that when I switched to Dish a few years ago. the amount and variety of soccer available was a marketing theme for Dish Latino. If Dish hasn't bled soccer fans over the last few years, there should be a pretty good bloc of soccer fans they would rather keep than lose. The Setanta preview on Dish Latino and also the fact that Dish has posted a message to viewers in Spanish seem to suggest that Dish are not ignoring this bloc. On the pessimistic side, GolTV has a good deal of leverage with this bloc, and from a PR sense also seems to have the upper hand (justified or not).
You make a good point about Dish not being the only provider to pull stations; however, vis-a-vis Direct they do seem to suffer in comparison. The reputation does get formed whether it is wholly deserved or not.