I'm not sure why everyone keeps posting to this thread.
The OP has made it more than clear, with all the other posts that have offered support and suggestions on what OP might do ... and OP has rejected them all.
At this point it should be clear that the OP just wanted to vent a bit of frustration.. the OP has done so ... and now its time to move on.. there's no need for everyone replicating the same advice over and over and over (and over) again.
OP (bruin95) good luck finding a new place without the HOA messes to deal with.
The OP has made it more than clear, with all the other posts that have offered support and suggestions on what OP might do ... and OP has rejected them all.
At this point it should be clear that the OP just wanted to vent a bit of frustration.. the OP has done so ... and now its time to move on.. there's no need for everyone replicating the same advice over and over and over (and over) again.
OP (bruin95) good luck finding a new place without the HOA messes to deal with.