Good points, however there is another way to look at it. With a strong lineup, the better players are often pitched around. When the lineup is weak, you can afford to go after the stronger hitters. That's basic baseball. I did see that Ramirez apologized, good thing for him! As far as Manny and the situation in Boston, look what it ended up doing there. As good as he made the team, they are today paying for the turmoil he caused. They still don't have a strong leader there, IMHO.
When you have the line-up Boston has had since Hanley has been in the Bigs, you could not afford to pitch around to many players. You could afford to pitch around Hanley. I rather pitch around Hanley to face Dan Uggla than pitch Youkilis and pitch to ....pick your poison...Beltre...Big Papi...