Thanks guys. I called an electrician and was told it would be at least a few hundred dollars to install a ground that is bonded to our main ground. He said a grounding rod doesn't meet code and doesn't recommend it. I think spending the $$$ is an unreasonable expense. Will keep you updated on what happens!
I would check with the HOA one more time to verify that, that is all they require you to do to be legit in thier eyes, BEFORE you spend the money on the electrician.
You may get the guy out to do the ground and the HOA turn around and say well you still need to move it.
Get it in WRITING from the HOA and file it away for later, if needed.
Jimbo