You can not be denied satellite by any apartment complex per the FCC and one or more rulings, I dont have the links but Im sure someone does here but the question will be wether or not your willing to get into a legal arguement with the apartment complex, the company that manages it and their lawyers over it. The FCC has a simple diagram showing options for installation of a dbs system on a rental / lease property, and you can put a dish inside an apartment facing out a window but the window has to face south / southwest but if your wife is being anal enough about living in this apartment complex then she isnt going to go for a satellite dish sitting in her living room. If it matters to you more than the happiness of your wife then put your foot down and be the man of the apartment and pick a diferent place to move to, otherwise keep her happy and the whole family will be happy.