Being an uplinker myself and have worked in the feild for a while, the small "DBS type" of dish is acutally a microwave dish that points to he stations point of presence (POP) Depending on the area, that may be at the station its self, or a remote site that is linked to the station by microwave or fiber. Usually, especally with the newer systems, typically a station will microwave back to the station, and have their uplink dish pointed on a bird for backup redundancy. It's not for monitoring a station as the station isnt bruadcasted over ku or cband, 99 percent of the time. Also, through microwave they can see the return as its a two path communication and do PL & IFB (hear the station's producer and talk back to the station through engneering channels for cue) Typically when they are on the bird, they dont have this type of return, and have to use phone lines in place of what they normally would have with Microwave.
Microwave is a two way street as they can both transmit and recive over a given amount of distance.
Satellite is typically a one way street unless someone puts a feed up. IFB and PL (stations engeneering channels) are typically not done through satellite due to the delay, allthough it has been done. Typically this is done over telephone lines.