It's not easy to help you, because just about every sentence you type out tends to contradict the one before it, and/or doesn't give enough info. That makes it next to impossible to tell what's really going on, and what you did in response which may have complicated things further. I realize that might be because you really don't have a real good background or know what's correct or not with these systems. If you don't know those sorts of things, you can never figure what's correct or not. I'm not trying to be harsh to you, I do want to help and this post will hopefully help in that regard.
I suggest if you want to continue on with this hobby, that you ask if anybody doing fta here at Satguys lives near you and is willing to come out and check things over for you. ONCE it truly is setup properly and working as it should, maintaining it is much easier.