The fact that the uplink and downlink frequencies are very different is a huge problem. Dish A dish would be transmitting on a different frequency than Dish B would be listening on.
The other killer problem is that the satellite is the controller for your dish. For example, the satellite can actually tell your dish to stop transmitting, if your dish is sending a crummy signal.
I think the freqencies are documented in the license for the satellite. I don't know if that's public or not. I'm almost positive that any control commands and protocols are super-duper-secret.
Are you asking just for fun, or for video link, or for data link? If you're asking about data link, that's easy using standard wireless WAPs and yagi or data-specific dish antennas.