I thought about a harmony. Not really the idea of having to turn the receiver on. She just wants to sit down and watch her shows with TV sound. No need to watch her soaps, sitcoms, or Ellen in surround What's also interesting is the iOS apps for most new receivers. Ability to control it from my iPad would be great.Actually, that sounds like the upgrade you need is a Harmony remote. My family immediately caught on to pressing the "watch TV" button. That way they get the better audio without the complexity.
I prefer the harmony-1 for a family friendly unit.