the first person who speaks loses
Fred, Yes I remember you saying that too. In fact, the first time we chatted on AOL Messenger was on the first. I gave a day without contacting her. She contacted me again on the 3rd. I left a transcript of what was said. Not the easiest to talk to. I was suppose to get a photo on the 2nd. Didn't get that till the 3rd. It's not easy when you ask a civil question and you get no response. In all likely hood it would be much better for me to haggle over a price when I was right there looking at the dish. I can see now the dish looks ok. Still it is more positive for me to wave the 10$ and 20$ in her face and make an offer that way. But when You ask for a phone number or an address and it falls on deaf ears. So when you say:
Thanks,
Tom
Thomas,
Remember what I said, the first person who speaks loses.
Fred, Yes I remember you saying that too. In fact, the first time we chatted on AOL Messenger was on the first. I gave a day without contacting her. She contacted me again on the 3rd. I left a transcript of what was said. Not the easiest to talk to. I was suppose to get a photo on the 2nd. Didn't get that till the 3rd. It's not easy when you ask a civil question and you get no response. In all likely hood it would be much better for me to haggle over a price when I was right there looking at the dish. I can see now the dish looks ok. Still it is more positive for me to wave the 10$ and 20$ in her face and make an offer that way. But when You ask for a phone number or an address and it falls on deaf ears. So when you say:
How can you say that I'm bugging her when it seems that I can't get her to say anything about commitment and to come and take a look at it and go from there? No one is speaking, her or me since the 3rd. You really aren't saying I'm bugging her are you Fred? Because I'm not.
You will be in a much better bargaining position if you don't keep bugging them. Just my opinion.
Thanks,
Tom