I went to a seminar given at Paramount which compared and contrasted HD and Film, or more correctly digital projection and film projection. This was a predominantly pro-film rally with very few HD people in attendance. There were all the normal comparisons of aspect ratio and aperature and the film guys all complained about how HD (16:9) did not convey the full integrity of the directors vision (blah blah blah) all of which is obvious and true. The end of the seminar showed back to back comparisons of film vs digital projection on both existing material and material that was shot just for this exhibit. The digital projection material was predominantly HD but there was quite a bit of 2K digital as well. Keep in mind that this was digital, 10 bit, uncompressed HD and 2K footage on a $100K projector. The difference between the two ranged from extremely subtle to almost laughably obvious. The digital projection won out at every turn, largely due to the stability of the image (no wobble issues here). What was more telling however was that the scenes that were shot 1080p30 and even more so, 1080p60 were simply mind blowing. Even the most devout film purists were slack jawed at the difference in the viewer experience. My favorite quote was from a famous director who stated simply "It was too real, the audience won't be able to handle it" when asked about 1080p60. He was implying that the lack of temporal information in a 24P production allowed the audience to adopt a level of disbelief, allowing themselves some distance from the experience. Anyhow, I have droned on enough.
My background is working with both film and HD. I was a hardcore Film purist until I saw what could be done with proper HD equipment. We are a long ways from seeing what is possible with HD as their is an entire generation of technical specialists which need to re-learn their craft to take advantage of HD. (everyone from lighting directors to DOPs and set designers). In the end we will be the better for it when (if) hollywood adopts HD.
Anyhow if you aren't going to the cinema much lately I doubt its because your being picky about the quality of the visual experience there. Its more likely that the material sucks and that like me, you can get almost the same experience from your home theater (and spend less money) and that says tons about the potential of HD, as you are not experiencing what is possible with HD in any home setting, not yet anyhow.