Do any of you have FM radio DX systems?
Yes, sort of. I have a rooftop TV antenna on a Channel Master rotor. TV VHF Low band is fairly close to FM radio, so it works well for both TV and FM radio.
FM radio transmitters are strong, so the main limit for reception is line of sight. I am at about 300 feet elevation and often after sunset I can pick up the San Francisco stations broadcasting from the Sutro tower about 100 miles away. The top of the tower is at 1800 feet elevation. When there is tropospheric ducting (thermal inversion) I can get San Jose which is around 140 miles (well beyond the optical line of sight).
So the elevation of your antenna and the broadcast tower are more important (in my opinion) than antenna size.
Best DXing time for FM radio is usually during summer evenings.