My wife and I have a deal. I don't tell her how to spend her money and she doesn't tell me how to spend mine! Good thing too because along with the FTA stuff, I'm also a drag racer. And you thought FTA stuff was expensive?? Two door cars and one dragster sitting in my garage plus two enclosed car trailers and two trucks outside.
As far as the dishes go, I put up what I want and she could care less. As a matter of fact, she could care less about TV in general. That woman reads a book or two a week so TV isn't important to her, and I'm glad cuz I usually watch a bunch of whatever sport happens to be in season.
So I'm really blessed as far as the wife thingie goes. I've got the best one ever!