I've been following this thread for a few days. I've been there and feel for you.
The telescope guys with equatorial mounts got it over us.
I know that elevation and rotation on the pole to point right at the north star is step #1
I guess I'm lucky here because my dish mount has been pinned on the pole since the '80's.
Everyone here really knows their stuff. Only thing I can add through the re tweaking process of my 12 footer dish is once you find a satellite is tweak in the lnb to get the best signal. I used 103 after finding a strong sat like 99W to peak the signals.
And stick with your guns. If your lnb points just a little off center of the exact center of the dish and you go working the rest of the settings (elevation, declination, mount rotation ) while going back to peak signal at the lnb. It will have you chasing unicorns.
Getting your mount main axis angle pointing true north is going to be a job. The steel structure will throw a compass off.
That's where a little mental work takes place when thinking wtf is going on when you get a strong signal on one sat but weak on another.
It's true what the guys say. When you get good tracking on a few high in the sky sats. Lock the dish from rotating on the pole.
Declination adjustment along with actuator positioning on lower arc sats makes the biggest aim difference. Elevation and declination on higher arc sats.
Describes set up and pointing of polar mount satellite dish with setting up examples and pictures for installing a polar mount
www.satsig.net