Is the consensus to turn everything down to small and 80hrz ?
Yeah, if you have speakers in the 60-80hz range for lows, they should be small and 80. When set as large and 40 or whatever, they have full range and you can lose some low end. The way i read it, is setting them to small and 80, and the sub to 110 or 120, allows the sub to cover everything in its range, and the others cover 80 and up.