I remember going to disneyland and seeing "Honey, i shrunk the kids" It was awesome! My kids who were very young at the time were on the edge of their seats and terrified at the sight of the lion in the film. I think there was a snake too. With that said, Can any consumer 3D viewed at home compare to what Disney offers at their theme parks?
Some movies, yes and some no. It all depends on the director, not the technology. This wasn't true just a couple years ago. Many are shot too dark, IMO. But many are quite equal to what you saw at Disney. Disney probably has the longest running experience at 3D so they are good at it. Today there are different opinions on what's good by 3D enthusiasts. Gimmick 3D effects that jump off the screen are favored by many but some hate that and want to see a more natural scenery. I'm in the camp that if the script calls for something of a gimmick, do it. But don't write the script just for that purpose.
3D is more like when we went from mono sound to stereo than when we went from SD to HD. What sells 3D is the gimmick in your face. What sold stereo sound was the ping pong. What is good 3D is that which entertains you and you enjoyed the story enhanced by looking real world with depth, not just a flat picture hanging on the wall.