Correctly installed polemounts are definitely better than vertical or roof mounts. You'll appreciate this if/when it comes time to clear snow/ice from the dish. Don't use chain link fence tubing, the walls are too thin. Given the amount of sail area presented by the dish, that crap can actually fold under severe wind strain. Some folks try to save a few bucks by using that stuff, then filling the inside with cement. I wouldn't. What's recommended is 2" (ID) Schedule 40 galvanized steel pipe. It has a sturdy 2-3/8" outside diameter that should stand up to everything short of a major hurricane.
But make sure your installer knows that's what you're providing. Cuz then he has to make sure to bring a Wildblue polemount adapter. It's fastened to the top of your pole, then the reflector bracket is mounted to the adapter. And before adding the concrete to the hole, drill a pair of holes perpendicularly near the bottom of the pipe. I recommend 9/16" holes. Get at least a foot of 1/2" rebar and put it through the holes, then add cement. The rebar will keep the pole from breaking loos from the concrete, and subsequently spinning in its own hole.
There's no 50' rule I know of. Even though less cable is better, a standard install is supposed to pay for up to 100' of cable between the dish and the modem - and sufficient copper (or aluminum) wire to ground everything to code.
"Southern sky" is relative until we know where you live - and which satellite you're going to aim for. If you don't want to reveal your location, calculate your own antenna pointing angles with one of the many online antenna pointing calculators available. Hint: both satellites used by WildBlue have an orbital longitude of ~111 degrees west.
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