Neither of my sound systems have such a mode but it sounds nice. I think I must have a hearing problem because I find myself constantly turning the volume up during movies when people are talking, while I turn it down during action scenes and music transitions. Then again my wife and 10 year old child expect a volume increase too so maybe it is all our equipment.
The bottom line is, I would like a balance. I feel like the provider should do this. I shouldn't have to have fancy equipment or constantly up and down my volume. This goes for all devices... DVD players, cable, satellite, VHS, Xbox and Wii.... etc....
NOBODY enjoys the sound getting really loud during action scenes and low during talking. Why don't they take a hint and fix this. This crap happens at movie theaters all the way down to OTA. I hate it. I just want to put the remote control down and enjoy the sound.
I hate to say it, but what you describe is a classic symptom of low-quality A/V equipment. When you mentioned having to turn up the sound to make out dialog, then getting blasted by action scenes or music, that was the exact symptoms I had when I used to have Bose speakers. Bose speakers, and most super-cheap home-theater-in-a-box systems have some significant gaps in their frequency range, typically in the range of most dialog. The nice thing is, you don't have to spend a ton to get good sound, I've heard $500 dollar home-theater-in-a-box systems produce really nice sound. Sure, they can't match systems in the 5-figure range, but they can at least reproduce a relatively flat, complete frequency range. The cheap systems and most Bose systems do a poor job at certain ranges, typically where dialog is.
Again, you could spend more, but I dropped about $750 on an Onkyo receiver, a Velodyne sub, and a set of Athena speakers (center, 2 fronts, 2 rears). The difference was shocking. Center channel dialog had what I can only describe as a "presence". The whole range seemed more balanced. Sure, I still get blasted on occasion when my local HD channel switches from 5.1 to crappy audio for a local car dealer, but overall, I'm much happier now, and the improved sound really adds a dimension to the HD programming we get. Sports (especially on FOX) is amazing, and movies on HDNET, etc... are great, not to mention DVD. Heck, even our Wii's Dolby Pro-Logic II sounds great (Metroid Prime Corruption sounds amazing considering it isn't even digital).
If you've spent the money on the HDTV and the service, look into a decent sound system. If you're on a tight budget, look into the Onkyo HT-SR800 at
Shop Onkyo. You can get the refurb for $400, shipped.