You didn't indicate C or Ku band, but here is what I would do...
1. Go to dishpointer dot com, put in your zip code and select AMC3 and it will give you Az/El info for your position.
2. Make sure your dish is near that location per the Az/El numbers given to you.
3. Go to Lyngsat dot com and look at AMC3. Select a transponder (C or KU) which shows DVB programming.
4. Hook up a DVB receiver and look for signal at that transponder freq...or...hook up an analog receiver and look for a NTSC signal.
5. Verify you are on the right sat by making sure the signal you are getting is on AMC3. If it is not AMC3, look at a sat E or W of AMC3 on Lyngsat to ID the signal.
This will tell you if you have to move the dish E or W.
6. After finding and verifying AMC3, hook up your dedicated receiver.
I am about 2.5 hours WNW of Louisville in Richland County, Illinois. If you cannot find anyone closer to help you in a couple of days maybe we can work something out as far as gas goes for me to come help you.
(edit: just realized that a dedicated receiver will either work off of a horizontal or vertical transponder. Make sure your feed is set up for the correct polarization. In other words, if your receiver is receiving signal off a horizontal transponder, you will not find your signal if the feed is set for vertical reception.)
dennis