I have a Geosatpro 1.2 meter dish, I just put it on a motor w/ a 55 mm tube tonight.... ....I have it as tight as can be without stripping the nuts....
One thing that's been recommended, is the use of a dab of anti-seize compound on the threads, under the nuts.
Prevents friction-welding of the hardware.
High torque could still lead to stretching the U-bolt, I assume, ...
... so keep your torque under control, and use all the alternate methods listed, to secure the dish to the shaft.
Absolutely! If the assembly isn't holding tight, don't force the mounting bolts in an attempt to squeeze it tighter, it only makes matters worse. Use some ingenuity and a little bit of common sense to add more surface area to hold the dish bracket on the motor stem.
The sand paper trick works swell, but it also hinders your azimuth movement when you need to adjust it. Installing three U-bolts (vs two) works just fine and still allows you to swing the azimuth of the dish assembly on the motor tube easily.
This is not the same as the azimuth of the entire dish and motor to aim at the satellite (rotating the motor on the mast). It is the alignment of the dish assembly on the motor tube, when trying to get the vertical axis of the dish perfectly aligned (parallel) with the vertical axis of the motor tube.
Back to tightening of the nuts and bolts, do not ever over tighten them. You only need enough pressure or torque to hold any part of the assembly in place, and not much more. Trust me, it won't move in the strongest wind if you give the nuts or bolts about a 1/4 to 3/8 turn beyond what is required to prevent gravity from moving it. If the assembly can still be moved, tighter is not better, more contact surface area is what you want. A third U-bolt or the sandpaper shim.
In simpler terms, don't be the gorilla!
Anti-sieze and other coatings will really benefit you. Especially if you live in a humid area and expressly near saltwater. And as Anole stated, it prevents fretting (or self-welding) of one metal surface to the other. This is a very excellent tip (thanks Anole - very wise one!)
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