Well, I'm gonna guess that the 46 dBW figure came from a FTA or satellite TV site or forum. Cuz the size of the dish is only part of the equation. The sensitivity of the LNB plays a factor as well, and those used for satellite internet reception are more sensitivie than those used for TV. Plus, neither FTA nor ROTA involve a transmitter. Your satellite internet dish will have to send as well as receive.
Nevertheless, that 46dBW you mention will surely include some fade margin. How much it hard to tell, because you can't really corrolate dBW with RSL or SQF - they're only incidentally related. dBW is output power at the satellite, RSL/SQF is after the signal is processed by the modem.
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