So I just created an account to be able to reply to you. Forgive me for not linking to the original thread I found on here a few weeks ago, BUT the short version is press the PLAY button when selecting the recording program from your list and it will resume where you paused. Logically, using the SELECT button unfortunately only gives the front the start or live options.
This was one of the biggest headaches I had with the Dish DVR since I got it last Fall. I found the answer via a search on this site and was very pleased after I did.
As background I have used MANY different DVRs over the last few decades and couldn't believe it wasn't a feature on the Hopper 3. Turns out it CAN be done and in time for Football season.
While I am typing my novel I will add the other feature I really missed until this Forum provided me the answer with a search, which was Frame Advance. Pause, then the Skip button is FA.
Regarding the Hopper 3 in general, I do love the large number of tuners and no more conflicts as well as the large hard drive and no more weekly to daily cleanups needed.
Automatic Prime Time Recordings are also a nice feature to me. All in all not a bad product once I learned the two key commands.