Well, I FINALLY got what I wanted. So now I can quit coming on here crying over not getting "the offer" . As well as going crazy deciding between DTV and Dish. I am very happy with the deal.
My wife can work wonders ON THE PHONE with csr reps, so I sent her to try one last time. Actually she did not need to get fiesty at all and everything was smooth and cordial. Got the HR10-250 (did not want new HR20) 4mo of HD, $10 off of bill for 1yr. Also no $20 shipping and handling for box as she asked them to waive and they did. And best of all I get to keep all the same channels and numbers I am used to and am familiar with. While not to the extreme that some may get, I feel a sense of "loyalty" to DTV. They have given me no reason to leave or bad talk them, I just wanted to upgrade and save a few bucks as the allmighty dollar rules all. Luckily I was able to do thatand stick with them instead of leave.
Rep also said they may install 5-lnb dish even though it is not needed currently (I have 3-lnb) but it varies. I have read mixed things on this. Some report more rain fade, others less. Is the the AT9 I see people referring to? Also, though she did not mention it will they install an antenna you think? I currently have a Radio Shack double bowtie in attic diplexed in. Does pretty good for most part, but my TV's tuner is ancient (2002) so I am hoping it is even better with the new box's tuner.
Thanks for everyones help and sugestions in all forums. But now my wife asks what will I spend endless hours on the internet researching to avoid her. My tv and sat radio are all good to go. Maybe I will look into the AT9 thing! Especially seeing as OTA cannot be diplexed into it?!