chefwan:
Sorry to hear of your problem.
This helps illustrate what a load our dishes are under, even in moderate winds. For the future, here's no need to weld anything to the pole just drill two 1/2" dia. holes in line, thru both walls of the pipe, no less than about 3" from the end, but by preference in the center of about a 3 foot deep footing. Poke a 1/2" bolt thru the holes, put a nut on it, and pour your concrete around it.
Being involved in Structural design, my move to Florida really upped my knowledge base in wind loading. It's possible for a large house to have over 1,000,000 lbs of uplift applied to the roof, which becomes an airfoil (airplane wing) as wind flows over it.
Harold