Well, after some time and deliberation I have finally resolved my issues, for the most part. I had a technician come in and put in a new dish and VIP222K receiver. The tech did not solve my issue, I did. He left me a couple splitters and duplexers and I tinkered by putting them on before the coax jack on the TV. A splitter resolved the the problem and I get the regular OTA channels and Dish comes in on channel 69.
That said I had to rework some things. Prior to this I was able to run both the satellite signal to the second TV and my cable internet on the same coax by using splitters. The cable guy had set this up. After installing the new dish and receiver this does not seem to work. So, in the end I had to move my modem, router, etc. to a location in front of the cable to TV. In other words directly feeding the modem with the internet cable and then only Dish signal on the cable to TV2. I was not thrilled with that solution, but happy that I got it to work nevertheless. Still I am not able to get local channels in HD from the dish (no view of that satellite).
The installer gave me no clue of how to solve the original issue. I think he just wanted to get out. So, in the end tinkering saved the day. But, all along I had a gut feeling this had to work somehow. Thanks to everyone who contributed an idea.